Seven months went by, but not even a day not thinking about it. Life can really be a series of pleasant moments and experiences, so why some take it so seriously? When I was like that, it was no fun at all. But when my problems were “transformed to challenges”, and when headless running from one pointless experience to another, was changed with well aligned and defined goals I am now striving to, it got a whole new picture. And you don’t need to be too serious about all this. Even the opposite, because it’s hard to imagine, how you will retrieve yourself from the burden of your first failure in all your seriousness, while it’s not nearly that hard if you just smile at yourself, stand up, and face the next challenge. Don’t even bother yourself with what others will think about it. Also don’t bother yourself if you disappoint someone from time to time. But always try your best not to disappoint yourself. Ever.
Not to be mistaken… When you really care for someone, seeing her/him dissapointed even hurts you more. So that practically means you betrayed yourself. 
“I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.”
Bill Cosby (Actor and Comedian)
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