Men don’t necessarily get better with age

They get better with wisdom and experiences accumulated. Logic tells us that the older the man is the more mature he should be. But less and less that could stand for a rule nowadays, because it isn’t even rare to find thirty and more year-old mama’s boys among us. So it is really hard to understand those girls on dating service websites setting the age of men they’re searching for, few years older at least. Guess what will that get you: immature father’s friend incapable dealing with women of his own age, therefore searching for adventure with an inexperienced girl. Is that really what you are dreaming about? When you contact such a girl, their pattern gets quickly revealed through some short conversations. Naive, egoistic, “mature” (yeah, right) girls, with to much artificially based confidence. Seems like a perfect match There are exceptions I know, but as a very small minority opposing this trend.
If you fell in love with a much younger/older guy/girl that is ok, but for god’s sake don’t search your partner within some imagined, artificial criteria with no real basis. Search for a partner you really like and you know, you will get along with well, not for some image your closest peers or the rest of the society surrounding you, have set up for you. It is your life, so claim this right for yourself!
As for myself, I am not perfect, I know that. But I also know I will strive for excellence on all areas of my interest, as long as I live. Still way better than those wanna be adults, living in their own world of imagined superiority to others and denying all their weaknesses they have failed at. Manage your weaknesses and develop your strengths. But do not deny any part of yourself.