Ignorance

It is one of the most disrespectful of all human “virtues” in my criteria. Say no if you mean no, and say yes if you mean yes, but do not, I repeat do not ignore the person you are dealing with. Use this act in case only, when the person addressed really doesn’t want to deal with the consequences she got into, and despite your previous decisive no’s, still bothers you with her childish and immature behavior. Otherwise this act used only shows weakness of your character and your attachment to the outcome. I still believe that most people are quite stable in their behavior and therefore, should be treated as such. If someone isn’t capable dealing with the responsibilities and consequences he got into, that is his own problem, not yours, so don’t let wussies you crush into now and then compromise your behavior, and change the pattern you relate to others to a disrespectful one. Every person deserves to be treated as a mature one, that is your duty as one of such, and it is their problem if they are not capable meeting the standards the society requires of them.

But beware of double bonding messages. With decisive no’s I mean no’s you express as such with both, your body and your soul. Because wishing and wanting something and saying the opposite only confuses the person you interact with. Subliminal messages you radiate with your body are way more powerful than the words you say. So next time you want something and say the opposite (maybe for the sake of your reputation or anything similar, or because you think it is right that way, but you’re not so sure deep inside), you should review your goals and purpose you set for yourself in your life, because desires change, so you will be able this way again to gradually synchronize your actions with your deepest core, which will resonate you into general well-being.

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